‘Packing’ means wearing a dildo under your clothes. The key is too arrange the chosen phallus in an interesting way so that it looks aesthetically pleasing, primarily to pass as a man. To do this correctly the ‘packer’ arranges the dildo so that it reflects a flaccid cock, assuming that most men don’t walk around fully erect this gives the realistic impression the wearer desires. Dildos used for sex are usually too big and bulky for successful ‘packing’ and much discussion abounds regarding the ideal material to us. It has been discovered that rolling up hair gel into nylon stocking produced the best bulge.

When it comes to modern sex toys, the transgender, drag queen or butch doesn’t have to worry about finding a suitable dildo to place in their pants. The cyberskin dildos available nowadays are perfect  flaccid packers, they sit comfortably without the fuss of old fashioned contraptions and they make a good silhouette in a pair of tight jeans. Sometimes the goal of packing is to enjoy sex at any given moment. Packing a dick ready for action can prove something of a problem as the larger solid dildos look odd beneath clothes and the softer dildo is too flaccid for successful sex. One answer is to wear a jock strap with the larger sex toys and if discovered just raise an eyebrow and smile!