Sucking cock, giving head, blowing, gobbling, whatever the name you give to oral sex ask yourself the question, ‘do I suck at giving a blow job?’ Blowing is something of a misnomer considering that the art of a good session of fellatio is a great suck. Rule number one is to tuck those teeth away as tensing every muscle waiting for the scrape of enamel against tender foreskin is no way to relax into this pleasurable act. Use the tongue as an extra stimulator and try to enclose a snug vacuum around the penis with your cheeks and throat. You don’t have to attempt the deep throat action of a porn star or even allow the cock to travel too far in if your gag reflex is particularly acute. Simply use your hand and tongue as extra ways to pleasure the penis and soon you will be a star fellatrix.

It is all too obvious to concentrate on the penis shaft but consider concentrating on the individual sensitive spots on your man’s penis which will benefit from some extra attention. The Frenulum is the stringy ridge of membrane which joins the head and shaft just under the tip of the head itself. It looks much like a saggy banjo string but don’t let that put you off as men have a hyper sensitivity there. Simply flick the string with your tongue or use the flat of your tongue to massage the area. Doing this whist pulling in his shaft will have him moaning with pleasure.

If you are unsure of what he likes ask him to demonstrate on your finger (your realistic dildo might be taking it a tad too far!). Watching your man  suck and lick your finger will get things started for you both and you can then recreate the act on his cock to finish what he started!

Make a noise and your partner will enjoy the experience even more. Moaning and groaning will communicate to your man that his penis is indeed gorgeous, that you find him highly arousing, it stimulates his sense of hearing that you enjoy his manhood and the vibrations created from the noise itself can provide an extra stimulus.

Look your man in the eye with the dirtiest eyes you can muster and this will help to turn him on. Look through your eyelashes in a naughty gobble monster way not in a bright eyed Mary Poppins style!

Make sure that his penis is wet whilst you perform your oral feat, if you struggle with natural saliva then opt for a flavoured lubricant to keep things slippery and moving.